That’s one of the questions that many people are dying to know. Do people dating while married? Is it only for open marriage? Have people become that liberal and put lower value to the holy matrimony? First thing is that you and all of us should remember is not easily judge these people as harlots. They have their own reason to do what they’re doing.
Because Good Guys Are Taken
There could be many reasons on why women looking for married men. First and foremost, a married man symbolizes a certain stability status. They represent a small amount of people who are able to give a continuous support. Good guys are taken, that’s an undeniable fact. When a guy just got engaged or married, he became more handsome and attractive for the single ladies. This is nothing new. This happens because the man has proved himself to be worth the effort.
Is the Woman At Fault?
Another thing that always happens is how easy people to blame the women involved in married affairs. A woman who is dating a married man, for whatever reason, becomes an easy target for bullies. Thing is, even though it was the married man who initiated the affair, the woman involved will still be put to blame. After all, it’s always easier to blame the third person instead of look inside and tries to find what’s wrong with the relationship.
When do people dating while married? When the marriage is still new and they can’t let go their single status? Or is it happens way much later after many years of marriage when second puberty hits and all that? Here’s the thing, it could happen to anyone, anywhere, anytime. But still, it’s not the reason to be paranoid and become over protective with your spouse. Marriage may be not pretty and only have rainbows and butterflies. It takes a healthy communication and understanding each other. It may take a long time before you come to settle with your spouse’s small habits. But that’s what it takes for a good marriage.